Risky Play in Early Childhood: Why It Matters and How to Support It Safely

Do you find yourself holding your breath as your child climbs higher, runs faster, or balances along that wobbly log? As parents and caregivers, it's natural to want to keep children safe. But did you know that allowing for "risky play" can actually support your child's development in powerful ways?

What Is Risky Play?
Risky play refers to exciting, physically challenging activities that involve a degree of risk, such as climbing, balancing, jumping, or exploring new spaces. It is not about danger but about calculated risk—the kind that helps children test their limits, gain confidence, and learn how to keep themselves safe.

Ellen Sandseter, a leading researcher on children's play, identifies six categories of risky play:

• Great Heights – Climbing, jumping from high places.
• High Speed – Running fast, biking, sliding.
• Dangerous Tools – Using real tools under supervision.
• Rough-and-Tumble Play – Play fighting, wrestling.
• Exploring Alone – Playing out of sight (but nearby).
• Dangerous Elements – Fire, water, or natural features.

Why Risky Play Is Important
Risky play supports:

• Physical skills: Coordination, balance, and strength.
• Risk assessment: Children learn to judge and manage risks.
• Confidence: Success in challenges builds self-esteem.
• Resilience: Learning from small mistakes supports problem-solving.

According to the UK-based Play Safety Forum, overprotecting children can limit their opportunities to develop key life skills. When children take manageable risks, they build independence, perseverance, and decision-making abilities.

Supporting Risky Play Safely

• Create Safe but Challenging Environments: Think climbing frames, tree stumps, uneven terrain, or natural elements that allow exploration.
• Supervise Without Hovering: Be nearby but give space. Offer guidance only when needed.
• Say "Yes" More Often: Instead of "be careful," try "how can you do this safely?"
• Model Risk Awareness: Talk about safety, balance, and planning.
• Accept Small Bumps and Scrapes: Minor injuries are often part of the learning process.

Risk vs. Hazard
Risky play involves calculated risk, not hazards. Hazards are hidden dangers that can cause harm without benefit. Risky play should always be age-appropriate and in a managed environment.

Final Thoughts
Children need opportunities to stretch their bodies and minds. Risky play is not about recklessness—it's about trust, growth, and learning. When supported with care, it can help children thrive in all areas of development.

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